Back to singlehood

Went through alot during these few weeks. Especially during the recent 2 weeks, yupz its F1 race! Phone calls ringing like crazy, crisis happen every now and then. Your heart jumped when you hear a crisis that you need to deal with. Many people they just think its an easy job, well its just a race what. Wait till you deal with nasty customers standing right in front of you scolding vulgarities. Throughout the whole event, I think I saw more than 5 people cried. Most due to frustrations more than stress, cause stress is always there. The past 1 week was really crazy, counting stocks in the middle of the night. But when you see the whole team working together, you kind of feel you are at the right place. Well, or celebrating a surprise birthday party at 2am, hiding at one corner, waiting for the leading lady bathe finished. Talking post-mortem at 3am and waking up early in the morning. Well, thats what event is all about. I really want to thank God for everything these 1 week. I nearly got into serious trouble many times, but a silent voice would tell me to "check again, wendy," "Go back and look at it again".. Well, really thank God for helpful people too. And I love my team, especially my Manager la! I seldom hold anyone as a role model but she is one to me.

Well, she is your regular office lady and a typical mum that loves her child. But something that sparks me is a friendliness, meticulous nature and loyalty to friends. I am really impressed at the way she handles everything. She stands out at work in a subtle way. Not your typical authoritarian superior, but able to be treated as a friend and you would still respect her. She is to me the new age type of superior. Her cheerfulness is contagious too.Well, I did learn alot from her, and I hope her baking shop would come to pass.

Well, after a tough week of F1, I thought I could take a break and rest. Our company gave us a day rest. I decided to treat myself better. How can you love others when you dont love yourself. So I spent $30 eating at Sakae Sushi, the nearest Japanese shop around my neighbourhood, went facial and massage. I realised I am quite a workaholic during this F1 event. Thats something about Arians. We may be complacent and always quit halfway, however, when we are at work and aim to complete, we will finished it by hook or by crook. I was totally immersed in my work, which I love it, as I love the feeling that everyone is working hard together. I realised not everyone understood that. Thank God my close friends knows that, and didnt disturb me, but occasionally sent me messages of encouragement. I felt touched. My sister would call me and ask me how i was, but would understand if I hang up abruptly. Even when my friends came to visit me, I didnt have time to even really chat and had to chase them off (*okay, I feel bad la*), they didnt blamed me, cause thats when I love the thing i do and I am happy being busy. I really appreciate that.  Well, but not all understood me that much.

Going back to work after a days rest, things started piling up again. I was so busy the whole day again. and best I am back to singlehood just 2 days after my hectic week. You may ask what happen, but I have no idea what to say. I feel apprehensive since the past 2 weeks. I begin to realise that all the words that was said to me before were all a lie. And i seriously made a huge mistake for starting this in the first place. I hadnt been happy since the past few months. A burning feeling of insecurity hovers over me everyday. All of us wish for a crystal ball that would allow us a glimpse of what the future beholds. but life is just so cruel to leave you at lurch and then making you suffer the consequences. I realise everything that this person said was never true. So determine and so convincing but all is a lie, because he would eat his words, he has done everything he told me not to. I realise I was stupid. So stupid. Wonder if its an irony that God played on me when my sister's wedding is just 3 days away. Strangely, its her second marriage but I havent had mine for even once. (which I am busy once again to help her) Well, guess, I am just living the new century. Dont get me wrong, I am happy for her. Because I have a strong gut feeling that this man would make my sister happy. I really wonder if there is a someone that is really out there. Or are you suppose to be the one that make that someone. I know most people would say "face reality, wendy and stop watching so much korean drama", I have to admit that the Korean dramas has overrated what is true love or even real love. But I believe all of us have that secret desire to meet and be with that special someone. That you feel he or she is the one. Guess thats why Romeo and Juliet is still the favourite love classic of all times. Its not just because of its beautiful language but because we all have that common wish that there would be such impulse love that cause your heart racing so fast and your mind going crazy to do things you never thought of doing. Some couples may falter at the thought of having to sacrifice for the other party but this star-crossed lover would at first thought think of till death do us part, or is it just my Arian nature taking place for its wishful thinking of a romantic love that may or may not exist.

Angry girl

Well, I am actually damn busy these few days. everyday is like battlefield. But I am so furious that I really need to vent out here!! I gave $2000 plus worth of something to someone. But the person treats it like shit. Well, despite the fact that I managed to get the gift thru blood and sweat. But some people just treat it like shit. ARGHHHHH!!!!!! All I hear is complaining and complaining. Well. come work in here and you will know why its so bloody busy. we have 30, 000 over staff working just working for this event. well, some people just dont understand. I just have to bear with it after the event. No time to think now.

Just FEELING FURIOUS.

Fear of the future

Yupz, as the title says, recently, I have been having THE Fear of the future. The fear of the unknown. My heart starts pumping very hard and a heavy weight burdens it. Am I thinking too much? Is it normal to feel like this? I should think so, that most girls at my age would fear and are worried about it. I hate the feeling of not knowing. The unpredictability is killing my curiousity and making me frustrated.

The reality of life is starting to hit me hard. I thank God for my parents who still showers me with great love and tries hard to shield me from the cruelty of reality. But thats only so much they can do. I rather they leave me to fend for myself when I was younger and discipline me harder in the area of finances. Nope I am blaming them cause no parents are born parents, they learn from mistakes as well. But I am glad that they didnt spare the rod when teaching me on the importance of academic. I did benefit from it.

I feel that I have not been working hard enough, think my laziness will get the better of me if I continue to slack. Gear up, Wendy!

After the race, I have lots of plans! Thinking and planning about it makes me excited. But being a typical Arien, we are such good starters but bad finisher. Oh well, at least we get the party started right?

1) My Blog! Going to revamp it
2) Trip to Melbourne (still planning)
3) Trip to UK in 2011
4) Trip to work in Nov and Dec (crossing my fingers that I can get at least 2-3 trips, best if its Japan, Korea and Taiwan (wow!!! its already making me high!)
5) My lasik in Feb 2011 (hopefully) (sad that I have to push back)
6) Cookery expedition (Still finding my niche)
7) My finance planning (everytime didnt succeed to plan) (But vow to do it this time) By 10 Oct
Hmmmm... so far thats all.. Going to plan somemore!

Anyway, recently, I encountered an upsetting situation. Was really upset about a friend of mine. But well, I care alot about my friends and would stand up for those who are bullied. But I get upset when I get blamed when I didnt do anything wrong. and to make a mountain over a molehill. Well, we have learnt to forgive and forget. Just have to move on and learn to be real careful of what I say to this friend from now onwards. Cos I would never know when "he" would use my words to bite. its not the first time already that "he" twisted my words. I still treat him as my friend, and still think well of "him" but I have a certain wariness about "him" now.

Well thats all.